Guys I'll get right to it. I have no confidence when it comes to ladies. I can't talk to them, period. All I'm asking is assistance in making me think better about myself.
I didn't start this with the pipe dream of "pulling" a different 9 or 10 every weekend. Let's face the truth, that's totally unrealistic. All I want is to be able to talk to girls without preparing myself for rejection.
Let's start with the facts:
1. I'm naturally extremely shy and at times I can't even talk to my own family.
2. I'm average looking at best
3. I work at a decent job and make enough to pay rent and buy gas and food.
4. I get rejected 9.5 times out of 10, so I expect it.
We've all seen the guys that can walk up to any girl and leave within 10 minutes with a phone number easy as though asking for the time of day. That's who I want to be, the guy that holds his head higher than the rest, makes a girl feel like all the other testosterone in the room isn't good enough. It would be awesome to be able to ask for a girls number and not need to use some lame excuse like homework help or some crap like that. I have friends who are ridiculously confident, who at times have refused to hang with me because of my shyness. Hell I've had friends set me up to meet a girl and not a single word is spoken almost. I want to be able to talk to every girl I find interesting and/or attractive and not worry about rejection.
I'm sure this is a lame thread idea, and who knows how many replies I get. I was just hoping to start a place where guys(and girls) like me can come to learn how to increase their confidence 10 fold and maybe, just maybe, end up with the guy or girl of their dreams. So thanks for listening and let's see how this plays out.
I didn't start this with the pipe dream of "pulling" a different 9 or 10 every weekend. Let's face the truth, that's totally unrealistic. All I want is to be able to talk to girls without preparing myself for rejection.
Let's start with the facts:
1. I'm naturally extremely shy and at times I can't even talk to my own family.
2. I'm average looking at best
3. I work at a decent job and make enough to pay rent and buy gas and food.
4. I get rejected 9.5 times out of 10, so I expect it.
We've all seen the guys that can walk up to any girl and leave within 10 minutes with a phone number easy as though asking for the time of day. That's who I want to be, the guy that holds his head higher than the rest, makes a girl feel like all the other testosterone in the room isn't good enough. It would be awesome to be able to ask for a girls number and not need to use some lame excuse like homework help or some crap like that. I have friends who are ridiculously confident, who at times have refused to hang with me because of my shyness. Hell I've had friends set me up to meet a girl and not a single word is spoken almost. I want to be able to talk to every girl I find interesting and/or attractive and not worry about rejection.
I'm sure this is a lame thread idea, and who knows how many replies I get. I was just hoping to start a place where guys(and girls) like me can come to learn how to increase their confidence 10 fold and maybe, just maybe, end up with the guy or girl of their dreams. So thanks for listening and let's see how this plays out.
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